Are All Men Really the Same?

16404713-woman-thinking-blackboard-conceptThe most common of hypotheses advanced in relation to relationships has been as to whether all men are the same. Maybe mainly propagated by the women who in most cases felt cheated out of love by the very men they had decided to give their hearts to. Or maybe, their own gullibility to feel loved and cared for deluded them to believe in the innocence of human intentions. So sad that this very stance continues to be expressed despite the numerous examples around all of which ought to have served as crucial life’s lessons.

Are all men the same? Well there are different responses to this. The bitter ex-girlfriend much like the estranged divorcee would agree. We all get into relationships with our hopes sky high. Most of us actually rush into it much quicker than it takes the adrenaline to dissipate after the sudden rush it calls routine. Yet to respond to this query in the affirmative most likely provides an alternative approach that would have yielded different results. I for instance understand a relationship to be one made by two consenting adults often of the sane mind and each of whom hopes to find something out of the union.

What do men want in a relationship? This arguably qualifies as the second question worthy of further deliberations. Most relationships are brought about by the desire to satisfy sexual urges. For most men this is enough to qualify a relationship. We call it ‘sex buddies’. Others add some little flavor to it and refer to it as ‘friends with benefits’. Exciting, yeah? Well it exists and to most men this may be enough. The thrill of having someone to satisfy your sexual urges and not want anything else from you is a complete thrill. You think it is an escape from responsibility yet most men have so much responsibility that not being responsible for even a couple of minutes comes as a great relief.

Why do men go for hookers? Because a hooker’s motivation is to satisfy the client and move on with their own lives. Once paid then the person just like the sexual urge, is gone. The mentality here is that he has had enough nagging women who always want explanations and justifications for almost anything and everything that just another woman who doesn’t care would be everything he ever needed. Selfish, you think? Well you are still reading which is fine.

What do women want in a relationship? Well, this one is complicated. Ranging from a strong man to a caring one. A gentleman to a complete replica of a character in a fairy tale or a favorite soap opera. That is the man thinking. Aided thinking. And thanks to technology and especially social media which serves as a dumping ground of all emotions ripe and stale, as long as they qualify to boost one’s motivations that their dreams are indeed valid. Thereafter, this character jumps into a role play of deceit and the cycle continues.

Of course there are men with the purest of intentions. The type that would tell you that they only want to screw or that they are really committed for the long run and actually mean every word of it. The type that get heartbroken and disappointed by the very women they dedicated their futures to. A case or karma to balance the equation? I believe in no superstitions. However, I believe that what a man can do, a woman can do better; or so the womenfolk claim.

All men are not the same. Different men like different things. Lead different lifestyles and have different characters. Men like to dominate? Yes they do. Not all of them however treat their women the way your boyfriends treat you. Even though some feign strength others openly admit their weaknesses. Others run away from their responsibilities yet others assume responsibilities that are not their own. Where others exploit there are those who give back. Just because you keep getting dogs doesn’t mean there are no angels. Keep looking and when you are almost done, you will have him who has that shining amour.

Ooko Victor

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